Have a lovely week, be productive and live a little!




It’s back to the student life for me as the holidays are over. Final final stretch and I’m partially excited as graduation is in my horizon!

I hope to do an update sometime in August but not now. My sugar life is great and I’m thankful, I’m not saving as much at the moment but that’s ok too as I’m getting some key things done.

I hope everyone keeps well, be happy and care free because life is short.


Never Sleep With Someone You Wouldn’t Want To Be…

Good for thought

foreverdreamingoflove 💋


Photo from Pinterest

Interesting graphic on intimate energy

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Posts will be made private as usual

I will probably make everything private in the next few days, I cannot afford to be identified by anyone be it in a vanilla setting or even worse, my sugar daddies as I have big plans for them. I am not posting any photos as that is a risk I am just not keen on taking as I also post about most of my adventures on my normal social media sites.

I have also noticed that a lot more people I know use WordPress, lol that has me feeling some type of way honestly as everyone is sharing their WordPress blogs on social media for friends to check out.

Have a lovely day 🙂




I’ve been having a hard time relating to my non sugar friends. 

New pot?

Met him when Mr Spontaneous was here about a few weeks back. 

I was out shopping while waiting for Mr Spontaneous to join me and when I met him I was trying on sandals since spring is around the corner. In any case I was genuinely minding my own business, listening to my music till he tapped me on the shoulder. Very tall guy, handsome face and I’d say he’s in his thirties. He was trying to buy some cute shoes for his sister, asked for my help and I tried to help him. He went off with a shop assistant and I got back to trying on shoes. 

I have an obsession with nail art and just keeping my finger nails and toe nails in good condition. This day it seemed to help because he returned and first said I have tiny feet, yeah im a size 3, then he said I have beautiful feet and the red nail polish looked good on me etc. Small talk, small talk till he asked for my number. I thought he was going to offer to pay for my shoes lol, sugaring has forever changed me.

In any case, I had a good feeling about him. Turns out I might be on to something. He runs his own businesses in the car industry. He isn’t from my country but is from my continent. Found out all this just now  when be contacted me. He is officially a person of interest lol. He says he is coming this side in about a month. 

Keep you posted



Sugar Tips — The nature of your communications

‘Sugar dating is DATING. It’s a REAL relationship no matter how limited.’ Companionship is a relationship.

My Adventures as a Sugar Daddy

Okay girls take a tip from my little girl… Don’t be the typical SB and want, need, have to…

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Another important notice

I have become increasingly paranoid that my SDS might somehow stumble upon my blog. I can’t risk that as I still have big plans which they form a big part of. Things are going really well, beyond my wildest expectations and I guess that now I realise I have something to lose and I can’t blog as freely. I’ve privatised everything on Mr App, Mr Confused and Mr Spontaneous.

Going forward I will still make updates but only leave them up for a day or less before hiding them. I’m most comfortable with this approach and I apologise to those who stumble upon my blog only to find it empty 😦

Happy sugaring.



‘pot’/ breakfast date update: creep

I am still not sure about this guy. I am sensing too much thirst.

So the place I suggested we go to is very nice. I actually saw a few locally popular faces. Then the politicians came in for their breakfast and man were they loud. Anyway, on to what happened.

It was a relaxed first meet, he is really a gent or so I thought, like old school will get up every time you get up and come to the table, opens doors and pulls out chair etc. He is a smoker. Is more in the entertainment field. I got so much information on him just by looking up his number on Google before we met. He then says, I should do that and I’m thinking I know all about you already but I’ll play along and act clueless. He tried to look me up too using my sugaring email address. I delete them and get new ones all the time so good luck.

Here comes in the thirst, perhaps he is just over eager. First he said he is OK with meeting somewhere for our first date or to have me come over as he believes he is the safest guy I will ever meet. Cough. Of course I shut that down and said I prefer a public space.  Why is he rubbing it in my face, that hey I’m the safest guy you’ll ever meet for an arrangement, you don’t need to say that I just need to feel safe around you and him repeating that just creeped me out.

During our date, he mentioned something like, if I ever tried to dirty his name, no one would believe me because he is upstanding. Oh, in my mind I’m thinking, so you want me at your place, say you’re the most safest guy to be around but in the same light if you assaulted me I’d be screwed. Hmmm.

He further suggested that I come over to his place this evening. Like no dude. Clearly he expects intimacy and I told him look you want me over and it is clear that you want intimacy and I’m not about that life.Sure I phrased it differently.

In any case, he sent me a text just now, we started talking again and guess what, he invited me over close to four times. The final straw was when he said let me come over so that we can ‘explore some boundaries.’

I’ve been patient with him but, no. I told him, look clearly we are after different things, good luck finding what you seek and bye. I just don’t have time for educating another guy nor do I have time for a guy who thinks he can get laid after getting me breakfast. No thank you. Bye.

He just creeps me out. He pushed me coming over too much to the point that I feel like he would most likely do something to me that I surely would not enjoy. My instincts are like no, no, no. I’m never seeing him again.

Sugar babies, your safety comes first and listen to that creeped out inner voice.