Howdy?

It’s official, I have been out of the bowl for years now. It was a great run, however, all good things come to an end.

Briefly, I have been clawing my way up the corporate ladder as a legal eagle in energy. Suffice to say, it’s been a rollercoaster but your girl bought her first apartment a year so it’s been a year at my not-so-new home and things are going well. Officially turned the big 30 – so bye-bye 20s and dirty 30s.

Single hahaha, but mingling and just living life. Content. Settling into a new job has seen me deal with both Mr. Spontaneous and Oga in a professional capacity as are all now in the same industry. Small world, but I am clawing my up the corporate ladder and navigating my way into the big boys club. What I will say though is that your feminine energy will get you browny points, your smarts are always front row but your posture, scent, and how you sway those hips and speak play a big part – some aspects tweaked depending on how you read the room. So all those sugar baby tips and tricks, and books (those books that were recommended were a literal gold mine on later human interactions) have come in handy.

What a trip reading this little thing, 10 years since I started it. LOL law school is such a distant memory.

Spent the most amazing weekend with my sub as he was visiting from Belgium, so Uhm yeah I am exploring another side of me, I am totally a Domme (or rather switch) so having a sub or two keeps the doctor away.

YourSugar

Greetings

I had a good chuckle reading my post from January. Oh how the year has unfolded.

I hope everyone is keeping their heads above the water, staying safe and just getting through!

It has been a tough, it is the weekend and I am having a drink because whew!

YourSugar

2020 Greetings

Hello 🙂

It has been a ride, a wonderful one filled with many challenges. I am turning 29 this year! I truly cannot believe it. I am almost 30, 30! I was 20 going on 21 when I discovered sugaring.

After my bad break up in 2018, I dove head first into doing me. This saw me move into a new role last year March and get some professional qualifications. I have been single, no sugaring for a very long time. I took stock of a few things (new year etc) and realised I have not been intimate with anyone (not even a kiss – wow) in 16 months! Heart break will have go celibate without intending to. LOL

I am in a good space now, life is calm, work is good (challenging as I left my job at the law firm to go in-house and man is that some change!) and I am good. I even got featured on a local business magazine early last year which was weird, but not weird in a bad way. Weird, because I am reminded that I am really doing this life thing now hey.

Since this is a sugaring blog – I will note the following:

I am still in contact with Mr App, Mr Spontaneous, Oga and the last pot (I don’t recall giving him a name) – no sugar though just plain catch ups where they sometimes text or call or we do dinner when they are in town. Oga sponsored a shopping spree last year which was much needed, we did not get to catch up since he had to cancel our dinner plans for whatever emergency he had. Mr App helped me finalise the professional qualifications. Mr Spontaneous is happy I have into his professional field so yeah.

Again, you always want to part ways on a good note with your SDs because years later – I can say without a doubt that they have my back. Also, I legit have no regrets about the sugaring experiences, I had fun, I was happy – I still say:

I might be going to Brussels mid year to kick start my birthday celebrations by visiting Mr Spontaneous. That is still up in the air so who knows? One thing I do know is that I am doing a birthday getaway and right now it will be solo – unless things change.

Naturally, the desire or drive to sugar is not there as my focus is 100% on my career and making professional moves. PLUS – I am enjoying this stage of my life. I am definitely selfish about my time, who I spend it with and what I do with it. My health and fitness have also been my focus for the past couple of months, I have shed 10kgs (approx 22 pounds) during that time. This stage of my life feels good.

I am at that age where everyone is either getting knocked up, engaged, or getting married, or changing cities or even leaving the country. I want to leave the country after two years – not sure where I want to go exactly. It will most likely be within my current company as it has opportunity for growth and is a multinational. I am currently learning French & German – by that I mean I relying on uncle Self Teach with aunts Youtube and Google.

I sure hope everyone is doing well.

Here’s to an amazing decade!

YourSugar

Long time

Hello everyone,

It’s been such a long time since I last wrote something. What a year!

So basically I found a male partner, with whom I was tragically in love. Alas, he broke my heart into tiny pieces and I will say I have not been in the best moods. It will be almost a month since he broke up with me, but I will admit – it still hurts like a bitch. The strangest thing is that this guy whom I was with since December last year broke up with me via e-mail and theeeeeeen he blocked me! Imagine. The way he handled things knocked the wind out of me, I thought he was a decent human being, but that everything happens for a reason. Sigh.

I started with a new job in earlier this year, things were great in the beginning but its as though to coincide with my love life, things have declined and I am looking to get out. I am miserable simply because there is no respect for staff members – none at all. I choose not to complain about it, but I have been looking around and I am certain something will pop up.

I also bought a little car earlier on in the year and she has been so good to me.

Lol, I am in a mirky place emotionally at the moment. I just want to talk to the loser of a punk ass I dated and just clear the air and end things on a decent note – so I am driving myself crazy in essence. Sigh. Am I allowed to finally say men are trash? lol hahahaha

I will find my balance. I just got taken by surprise by work and him, because I did not see the way things unfolded and are unfolding coming at all. Now I find myself caught up in a quarter life crisis.

I haven’t dabbled in sugaring for obvious reasons in over a year, though I have received gifts and money from old associates – which I of course had to accept to avoid being rude! 🙂 I still have about 4 of them I talk to now and then, dinner here and there when they are in town. Weird friendships, but they are still generous without expecting nor receiving anything in return besides a good catch up session.

I trust everyone is doing well.

P.S. I have also noticed that whole sugar bowl has changed from what it used to be 7 or so years ago when I was first came across it. Its not appealing at all. It has gained so much popularity in my country and I note that now we live in the era of the Instagram Thot. Lol the evolution has been somewhat interesting.

Yours in this life thing,

L

Hey

Have a lovely week, be productive and live a little!

🙂

Hello

It’s back to the student life for me as the holidays are over. Final final stretch and I’m partially excited as graduation is in my horizon!

I hope to do an update sometime in August but not now. My sugar life is great and I’m thankful, I’m not saving as much at the moment but that’s ok too as I’m getting some key things done.

I hope everyone keeps well, be happy and care free because life is short.

YourSugar
Xx

Never Sleep With Someone You Wouldn’t Want To Be…

Good for thought

Posts will be made private as usual

I will probably make everything private in the next few days, I cannot afford to be identified by anyone be it in a vanilla setting or even worse, my sugar daddies as I have big plans for them. I am not posting any photos as that is a risk I am just not keen on taking as I also post about most of my adventures on my normal social media sites.

I have also noticed that a lot more people I know use WordPress, lol that has me feeling some type of way honestly as everyone is sharing their WordPress blogs on social media for friends to check out.

Have a lovely day 🙂

YourSugar

xx

Honestly

I’ve been having a hard time relating to my non sugar friends. 

New pot?

Met him when Mr Spontaneous was here about a few weeks back. 

I was out shopping while waiting for Mr Spontaneous to join me and when I met him I was trying on sandals since spring is around the corner. In any case I was genuinely minding my own business, listening to my music till he tapped me on the shoulder. Very tall guy, handsome face and I’d say he’s in his thirties. He was trying to buy some cute shoes for his sister, asked for my help and I tried to help him. He went off with a shop assistant and I got back to trying on shoes. 

I have an obsession with nail art and just keeping my finger nails and toe nails in good condition. This day it seemed to help because he returned and first said I have tiny feet, yeah im a size 3, then he said I have beautiful feet and the red nail polish looked good on me etc. Small talk, small talk till he asked for my number. I thought he was going to offer to pay for my shoes lol, sugaring has forever changed me.

In any case, I had a good feeling about him. Turns out I might be on to something. He runs his own businesses in the car industry. He isn’t from my country but is from my continent. Found out all this just now  when be contacted me. He is officially a person of interest lol. He says he is coming this side in about a month. 

Keep you posted

YourSugar 

Xx